Ephesians Teaching Series

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12. Eph 3:16-19 Pleasure and Delight in God

  • Enjoying and delighting in God is a core part of the Christian life.
  • We all want more of it, but how do we get there?
  • How can we have more?

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  • Today I want to look at Ephesians 3:16-19
    • I’m going to argue that:

Delighting in God

A felt sense of delight in God is a very important part of the Christian life.

  1. Why this is the case
  2. Examples and stories
  3. How do we get there?

Ephesians 3:8-9

  1. To me—less than the least of all the saints—this grace was given, to proclaim to the Gentiles the unfathomable riches of Christ
  2. and to enlighten everyone about God’s secret plan—a secret that has been hidden for ages in God who has created all things.

Ephesians 3:14-21

  1. Τούτου χάριν κάμπτω τὰ γόνατά μου πρὸς τὸν πατέρα, For this reason I bow my knees before the Father,
  2. wἐξ οὗ πᾶσα πατριὰ ἐν οὐρανοῖς καὶ ἐπὶ γῆς ὀνομάζεται, from whom every group in heaven and on earth is named,
  3. ἵνα δῷ ὑμῖν κατὰ τὸ πλοῦτος τῆς δόξης αὐτοῦ that he may grant you, according to the riches of his glory,
δυνάμει κραταιωθῆναι διὰ τοῦ πνεύματος αὐτοῦ, with power to be strengthened, through his Spirit,
εἰς τὸν ἔσω ἄνθρωπον in your inner being,
  1. κατοικῆσαι τὸν Χριστὸν διὰ τῆς πίστεως ἐν ταῖς καρδίαις ὑμῶν for Christ to dwell, through faith, in your hearts
ἐν ἀγάπῃ· ἐρριζωμένοι καὶ τεθεμελιωμένοι,in love, being rooted and grounded
  1. ἵνα ἐξισχύσητε καταλαβέσθαι σὺν πᾶσιν τοῖς ἁγίοις that you may have strength to comprehend with all the saints
τί τὸ πλάτος καὶ μῆκος καὶ ὕψος καὶ βάθος, what is the breadth and length and height and depth,
  1. γνῶναί τε τὴν ὑπερβάλλουσαν τῆς γνώσεως ἀγάπην τοῦ Χριστοῦ, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge,
ἵνα πληρωθῆτε εἰς πᾶν τὸ πλήρωμα τοῦ θεοῦ. that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.
  1. Τῷ δὲ δυναμένῳ Now to him who has the power
ὑπὲρ πάντα ποιῆσαι ὑπερεκπερισσοῦ ὧν αἰτούμεθα ἢ νοοῦμεν to do all things far more abundantly than we ask or think,
κατὰ τὴν δύναμιν τὴν ἐνεργουμένην ἐν ἡμῖν, according to the power that works mightily within us,
  1. αὐτῷ ἡ δόξα ἐν τῇ ἐκκλησίᾳ καὶ ἐν Χριστῷ Ἰησοῦ to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus
εἰς πάσας τὰς γενεὰς τοῦ αἰῶνος τῶν αἰώνων· ἀμήν. throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen.

Translation and structure by Andrew Fountain


  • Why is it that many Christians seem to struggle for years against chronic sins, with little or no progress?

The lie of Satan

circle
Pleasure is outside
the circle of obedience

Outside will?

Outside will?

1. Is it wrong to want to be happy?

  • The truth: “At your right hand are pleasures for evermore” (Ps. 16:11)

Love and joy are closely intertwined

1 Peter 1

  1. Though you have not seen him, you love him.
    Though you do not now see him, you believe in him
    and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory,

Ephesians 5

  1. “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”
  2. This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.
  • Isaiah 54:5 For your Maker is your husband, the LORD of hosts is his name;
  • When then nation turned its back on God and went after false gods, he said
    Jeremiah 3:14 “Return, O faithless children, declares the LORD; for I am your husband”

Delighting in God

A felt sense of delight in God is a very important part of the Christian life.

1. Why this is the case
  • A deep and rich enjoyment of God will make us so satisfied it will be easy to resist sin
  • A joy in God will energize us to living lives for him
2. Examples and stories

3. How do we get there?

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2. I want to talk about our Experience of this

David: Psalm 16

  1. “In your presence is fullness of joy
    At your right hand are pleasures forevermore.

Paul: Philippians 3

  1. But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ.
  2. Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ
  3. and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which comes through faith in Christ, the righteousness from God that depends on faith—
  4. that I may know him and the power of his resurrection…
  • Paul goes on to say in

2 Corinthians 5:14

  1. For the love of Christ compels us...

Moses

Hebrews 11:24-26 tells us:

“Moses…saw more enjoyment and reward in following God than all the pleasures of wealthy Egypt”

  • Sarah Edwards, The wife of Jonathan Edwards: (1700’s New England)

Sarah Edwards

Mrs. Edwards writes: “Last night was the sweetest night I ever had in my life. I never before, for so long a time together, enjoyed so much of the light and rest and sweetness of heaven in my soul…

Part of the night I lay awake, sometimes asleep, and sometimes between sleeping and waking.

I seemed to myself to perceive a glow of divine love come down from the heart of Christ in heaven into my heart in a constant stream, like a stream or pencil of sweet light.

At the same time my heart and soul all flowed out in love to Christ, so that there seemed to be a constant flowing and reflowing of heavenly love, and I appeared to myself to float or swim, in these bright, sweet beams, like the motes swimming in the beams of the sun, or the streams of his light which come in at the window.

I think that what I felt each minute was worth more than all the outward comfort and pleasure which I had enjoyed in my whole life put together. It was pleasure, without the least sting, or any interruption.

It was a sweetness, which my soul was lost in; it seemed to be all that my feeble frame could sustain of that fullness of joy, which is felt by those who behold the face of Christ, and share of his love in the heavenly world.”


Samuel Rutherford

  • A pastor in Scotland 1600-1661

Samuel Rutherford
Sands of Time

The sands of time are sinking;  the dawn of heaven breaks.
The summer morn I’ve sighed for,   that fair sweet morn awakes.
Dark, dark has been the midnight,   but dayspring is at hand,
and glory, glory dwelleth   in Emmanuel’s land.

 
O Christ he is the fountain,   the deep, sweet well of love.
The streams on earth I’ve tasted,   more deep I’ll drink above.
There to an ocean fullness   his mercy will expand,
with glory, glory dwelling   in Immanuel’s land.

 
The bride eyes not her garment   but her dear bridegroom’s face.
I will not glaze at glory   but on my king of grace;
not at the crown he gives me   but on his nail-pierced hand;
the Lamb is all the glory   of Immanuel’s land.

  1. Without knowledge there is no experience
  2. Knowledge is necessary to guard us against false experience

Delighting in God

A felt sense of delight in God is a very important part of the Christian life.

1. Why this is the case
  • A deep and rich enjoyment of God will make us so satisfied it will be easy to resist sin
  • A joy in God will energize us to living lives for him
2. Examples and stories

3. How do we get there?

Ephesians in two halves

 
  Chapters 1-3 – The Truth  
 

—motivation of love & joy—

 
  Chapters 4-6 – Living out the truth  
 

Psalm 27:4

  1. “One thing I have desired of the LORD, that will I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to behold the beauty of the LORD, and to inquire in His temple.”

Is there no place for self discipline?

There is no other way to victory in the Christian life, than through experiencing this delight

  1. You have to be hungry. Be unsatisfied. There is so much more!
  2. Seek his presence: James 4:8, Heb 11:6, Ps 16:11
  3. Experiencing how much he loves us brings the greatest delight

Ephesians 3

  1. [I pray that…] you may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth,
  2. and thus to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, so that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God.

Romans 8

  1. Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will trouble, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword?
  2. …No, in all these things we have complete victory through him who loved us!
  3. For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor heavenly rulers, nor things that are present, nor things to come, nor powers,
  4. nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in creation will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Ephesians 2

  1. But God, who is rich in mercy, because of
    his great love with which he loved us,
  2. even when we were dead in trespasses,
    made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved—
  3. and raised us up together with him
    and seated us together with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus,
  4. so that in the coming ages he might display the immeasurable riches of his grace through
    his kindness to us in Christ Jesus.
Last updated on 27 Aug 2023
Published on 27 Aug 2023